Why don’t we like our neighbors?

Moving into a new office recently reminded me of something that seems to typify life in Seoul. We’re not very neighborly. It’s not that we’re unfriendly people once you get to know us. Quite the opposite. It’s simply that, with neighbors and strangers alike, we tend to keep our distance, engaging only when necessary. For the first few days after the move, the foreigner still living within me, even after all these years, was eager to introduce himself to the people in the offices on either side of mine. It was World Cup season, and I even imagined organizing a little gathering in the two lounge areas on our floor. Admittedly, I was also imagining the occasion — England making the final. It didn’t take long to absorb the building’s unwritten rules. Within a couple of weeks, I found myself doing what everyone else seemed to be doing: avoiding eye contact in the elevator, passing people silently in the corridor and quietly getting on with my day. What accentuates this culture is that this building doesn’t separate offices from residences. Each unit could serve as either. The silence made me w

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