I’m a long time bts fan. I’m an older fan too and wouldn’t say I’m ‘army’ (just because I dont really engage with fandom things at all) but I am a fan. I’ve liked them since debut and used to be a hardcore fan but I’m more casual now, as personally other things have taken over in my life.
I have two vip tickets for both days. Due to lack of bts fan friends and home commitments I am taking two non bts fans wit me because I am anxious to go alone. I’m taking my best friend who knows nothing about bts and then my husband who isn’t a fan either.
The discourse online I keep seeing of ‘don’t bring your boyfriends or husbands or non bts fans to this show as it takes tickets away from real fans ‘ is stressing me out. I’m scared I’ll be judged for who I’m taking. It’s my money and i spent it on those tickets. But I can’t help but feel I’ll be judged or bullied for bringing two bts fans when I know how in demand the vip tickets were.
I don’t know how to deal with it or approach it really on the day. I know freebies will be handed out and we may be asked who our bias is. Well my friend and husband don’t have a bias as they’re not fans. They have heard some songs, but they’re coming with me for company more than anything. They both are excited to have fun though.
The thing is I’ve been told I should have asked an army to come along. But I don’t know any in real life, and I am not somebody who wishes to spend close proximity with strangers in that way. I need people who can comfort and be there for me as I’m not good with crowds
Will I encounter actual issues with this or is it just all online discourse and unnecessary nit picking?
Thanks
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