I’m not really sure how to start this, but I will give you some context. My ult is Rami and my bias is Pharita. Rora was almost my bias, but then I changed my mind.
I always enjoyed watching BAEMON members perform, they all have an excellent stage presence and formidable skills. I started stanning them in March 2025, 2 months before Rami’s hiatus. But when the announcement came, I was really frustrated. I didn’t even get to watch their new content with Rami in it. Then, I started watching their OT6 content, while she didn’t come back. My only option as a new Monstiez when the announcement came out.
The problem is, some people get tired of waiting. And watching my ult on hiatus, while (in my opinion) my bias is getting treated unfairly and not being properly promoted, is also really tiring, and sad. You might be questioning, “Where’s Rora in all of this?”.
Well, I keep seeing comments like “Rora is the best vocalist!”, “She’s the main visual!”, “Rami’s hiatus was beneficial for Rora!”, and a few days ago, I saw a video that said “If she was in another group, Rora would get brand deals and companies be kissing the floor she walks on, but y’all aren’t ready for that conversation” (The phrase is not accurate, but it was something similar). These comments annoyed me, and I was seeing too much of them.
I don’t hate Rora, neither I made this post to bash her and criticize her. But I also have a question to the people that might see this post. Is it wrong to feel this way? Is it normal to feel that Pharita is getting unfair treatment, and compare her with Rora? Is it wrong that my mindset inside this group is “If one wins, the other loses”?
I’m sorry for any mistakes in this post, english is not my first language. And sorry if I misunderstood myself, or it looks like I’m hating on Rora. I’m just really confused and don’t want to look at Rora differently. I want to look at her and say “Oh, it’s Rora, I love her!” Like I do with other members
TL;DR: Since Rami’s hiatus, I’ve been seeing different treatment for Pharita and people praising Rora a lot. Not that they can’t do it but the type of comments than fans share is unbearable to watch. Is it wrong to feel like this? How should I change it?
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