hi, so i know this is pretty much uncommon – i don’t think i have seen a post about this before so i might possibly be the first. the context behind my post: i am a moa, i have been one since 2019 and i have never left the txt fandom space before in my life. the fandom space on socials was great in 2019-2020, until 2021-2025 – where things got more and more inappropriate and borderline violating. and by that i mean immense sexualization, nsfw shipping about the members together, etc etc. moas rarely post about music and performances these days, and if it happens its rare.
i even looked at my friends phone to see her timeline on socials (she’s an engene) and 90% of the fandom is literally always discussing their favs talents or majority are posting about defending them or either make fun fandom activities go viral. it was so refreshing that i was honestly thinking my own fandom must’ve been hijacked by prn addicts.
im not leaving txt, i am just turned off by the way the moas have made me view them without my own willingness, and i need a new fandom space to engage with fans in. this situation has made me consider becoming a multistan purely to find kpop stans that do not participate in the regular human boundary breaking that occurs in my former one. and i would like to branch out and find interest in a new group and a new fandom where this behavior is less common and less the majority. i have never ever wanted to become a multi, but this situation has made me want to become one to have friends in a new fandom who are more respectful and less nsfw and less weird with their fav idols. i am not even exaggerating when i say that even the ‘mildest’.. ‘compliment’ ..txt gets from moas is when they call them twinks or some variation of an emasculating phrase that strips them of their actual identity.
what are your recommendations? for the kpop group: i have the same ask of requirements that i already had with txt, i would like it if they were regularly singing live and were regularly posting content. for the fandom: i would like it if they didn’t make nsfw comments/shipping comments masked as ‘jokes’ 24/7, and would like it if they actually discussed their group’s talent.
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