Hello and a good day,
Germany, mother of the son and my daughter-in-law. They got married in a civil ceremony in New York and want to have a traditional Korean wedding in Seoul next year. At least that’s what my son wrote to me today 😊
Well, I don’t know what to expect and I have a lot of questions.
How will it go? In terms of timing, as well as everything around it.
I can speak English with my daughter-in-law. How about in Korea? Can I still manage to learn polite phrases in Korean with Duolingo or another language app? (I am not very gifted with languages, but I see it as a courtesy to the parents/family of my daughter-in-law)
What is expected of me? I am divorced from my son’s father, but we get along well and he will be there. The brothers with their partners as well. Depending on finances, other relatives might also come along.
What about gifts?
Financing of the wedding? My son is very well established professionally and will probably pay for everything, as far as traditions allow.
Is there anything I need to be aware of? From the normal daily routine to the wedding proceedings?
Finally: the wedding is not everything and I will probably not come to Korea a second time. How do I get to know the country and the people at least a little? I have planned one to two weeks for that. What can I do?
If my son is reading this, he is of course welcome to give me a bit more information than what he has written so briefly 😉
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