Respect is earned, not demanded — A lesson from BTS

Amidst all the negativity swirling around lately, I feel like sharing something inspiring — a reminder of what it looks like from the other side. BTS began as a humble, unknown group from a small company. Even two years into their journey, they had yet to taste the recognition and initial goal that they dreamed of. Instead, they found themselves teetering on the edge of bankruptcy, crammed into a tiny apartment with one bedroom and bunk beds. They endured relentless pressure, water leaks, flooding, mosquito bites, grueling practice schedules, strict diets that led to malnutrition, recording music in a garage, handing out free concert tickets on the streets, and constant mockery from those who dismissed them.

It wasn’t until I Need You that they caught their first glimpse of what success feels like. And looking back, it’s clear that from that moment on, their growth was steady and significant. With each comeback, they earned more love and admiration, but also faced harsher scrutiny, scary allegations, and relentless attempts to tear them down. Yet, they continued — fueled by tireless hard work, unwavering dedication, the collective effort of their team and company, and the deep bond they share with their fans. All of this blended into something so unbeatable, it saves lives.

As RM quoted, “It’s like the seven of us are on the same boat, just looking in different directions, but going the same way. That’s how I describe BTS” They never wavered, because their purpose was clear — their fans, ARMY. They put aside family, friends, and their own well-being, knowing their greatest joy came from ARMY. And they believed that with enough sacrifice and perseverance, they would one day stand at the top and claim what they deserved.

What they have now — respect, influence, and global recognition — was never handed to them. It was built, brick by brick, through resilience and patience. True respect and support are not things you can demand out of pride; they are earned over time, through the weight of your efforts and the sincerity of your intentions. Everyone deserves justice and human rights. But respect and power come from effort, sacrifice, and proving yourself — it is earned, not from entitlement, especially when that comes at the expense of those who contribute to your growth or those who support you. And at its core, treating others with humanity means offering that same respect to your team, your boss, your staff, and even your rivals.

If BTS had ever demanded respect without first enduring what they did, without showing that persistence, humility, and commitment, they would never be held in the same high regard they are today. Their story is a powerful reminder that real validation can’t be rushed or forced — it’s earned, and it lasts. It changes lives.

“There’s 100% of success and I put, l give 50 to the ARMYs and the other half, we put like 5% each (7 members) so that’s 35. And I give 15% to the Hybe and BigHit. So if it’s a trophy, my percent is like 5, it’s like the edge of the trophy. So if you always realize that to yourself, you’re just nothing, a piece, a little part of this whole journey, the success is not all yours. I always try to realize that for myself, and it really helps me to keep myself down to earth and I think it’s really important to survive in this crazy industry.” — RM

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