Is it normal to lose interest in idols because they look different? In this case I’m referring to plastic surgery, not weight gain, although sometimes drastic weight loss does also affect how i feel about them.
Sometimes i look at their posts and all i can notice is how different they look due to plastic surgery. Their face falls into an uncanny valley region for me, and it kind of disturbs me. I feel like that isn’t the person i’ve seen for the past few years, but then i start to feel guilty that I’m judging them based on their looks.
In the case of drastic weight loss, all i can notice in their photos are how unhealthy they look and it makes me uneasy to look at them… then again i start to feel guilty for thinking that way. Ive never felt this way about weight gain though.
Subconsciously i feel like i like them less, and I recognise this is happening when i start to bias other group members instead.
Has anyone else had the same feeling?
edit: More thoughts — it always feels like a shame to see them because they looked so much better before and i don’t think getting any work done was necessary. I still do like them but not to the extent that i did previously
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