I have my bias from a 5th generation group and all members are 20 years old, so I think that like most humans, they too will someday be interested in dating even if they are idols. I feel anxious to think that my bias has a girlfriend or any member of the group, I think my thoughts are similar to those of a Korean fan, I know dating is normal, but I’m worried what might happen if there are rumours of dating.
I also worry that my bias is hated or that his career is ruined, I really enjoy his music and I want to support it always, but the idea that my bias has a girlfriend stays in my mind for hours and I can’t accept it, I try to convince myself that if I can, but it causes me anxiety. For example, I’m happy listening to his music and suddenly the idea comes to mind “what if he’s on a date with a girl right now?”
I’m not a teenager, I’m not in love with my bias, I just let myself be carried away by the ideas of Korean fans and I think that the idol should only dedicate himself to his fans and not betray them with a girl.
Can you help me with some respectful advice? What do you recommend to overcome these thoughts and be able to support them even if you ever confirm a romantic relationship? I want to be a good fan and I recognize that I am wrong and I want to improve.
I’m using the translator, so I’m sorry if there are any errors in the writing.
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