Honestly, what I want is to create for myself a positive k pop environment without the usual toxicity revolving around k pop stans. Before I clearly explain what I want you people to advise me on let me tell you my opinions about k pop as a kind of a new k pop Stan.
Firstly, all k pop fandoms have those among them who are toxic and the fact that they do not get called out by their colleagues means that all fandoms, maybe with few exceptions, are toxic. I got into k pop because of BTS and called myself an army everywhere like I was so proud to say that I am there fan, I started seeing army fighting with other fandoms and thought other fandoms are jealous and toxic but as time passes I realized that sometimes it was even people from army in the wrong. For now, I say that I like BTS but I have a temptation of saying that I am not an army and trust me BTS are my Ults.
So now here is my problem. After discovering the toxic side of k pop stans, I want to consume k pop content without feeding off from stans’ ideas but it is impossible for a person like me who do not have k pop friends in real life bcs of where I live. I consume k pop content to boost my mood and relax but when I encounter hate comments or stupid ideas, my energy gets drained.
So, HOW DO I GET TO CREATE A PEACEFUL AND POSITIVE K POP FEED? according to your experience, what do you do to not encounter shitty things?
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